Thirty things I’ve learnt – Advice for young coaches
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Thirty things I’ve learnt – Advice for young coaches
I’m in my 20th year of coaching. I started whilst still in school actually. My first job was cleaning the restrooms and floor at a gym above the restaurant I waitered in, to pay for my training and studies. From there I started training members and clients.
Anyhow, I wanted to share some advice for all those starting off in the coaching industry.
What I’ve learnt:
1. It takes at least 25 years to become an ‘expert’ in something.
2. Like an athlete, the more you progress and get better in something, the more harder you have to try and look to get even better.
3. People don’t care how much you know, until they know how much you care.
4. Learn to listen better than you talk. You don’t always need to fill the silence.
5. Look outside your sport or area of interest for fresh new idea’s.
6. Have balance. Have other hobbies. Spend time with family, close ones and friends.
7. My mistakes and failures have taught me my biggest lessons.
8. Don’t be afraid to ask.
9. Keep it simple, not science. Your athletes don’t come to you for a lesson on physics and angles.
10. If you don’t know an answer, go find it or ask someone who does. Your client/athlete won’t think any less of you. In fact they will respect you even more for it.
11. There are no set ‘hours’. Be prepared to pay your dues, put in the long hours and work.
12. Never forget coaching is not about the X’s and O’s (exercises, drills, sets, reps) it’s about what i call the the P’s & S’s (People & Simplicity).
13. Be nice to people, even if you don’t like them.
14. Check your ego at the door.
15. Mistakes are good, don’t be afraid to make them. In fact if you don’t make mistakes, you aren’t trying hard enough.
16. Keep Learning, keep logging things down.
17. Wear clean clothes that resemble you are serious about your profession.
18. Take care of yourself, your body, look ‘fit’.
19. Get to the lesson before your client/athlete.
20. Connect with your athlete, get to know them, their interests etc.
21. Read everyday.
22. Stay connected in some way to past athletes. Don’t take offense if they leave you. If you are good, they will come back.
23. Keep looking for ways to get better. enroll for courses, do home study etc..
24. Practice patience.
25. Success in this business is about having better people skills, not better drills.
26. Coaching should be a vocation more than a profession – If you don’t know what ‘vocation’ means, then look it up.
27. Learn gratitude.
28. Keep challenging yourself as a person, not just as a coach, parent, manager, teacher or whatever your profession is.
29. Enjoy the journey. Not all day’s are going to be great, but keep looking for the great in everyday.
30. You are never going to please everyone. You are not going to be liked by everyone. And you know what? That’s just fine.
I hope these help some of you out there. Everyday I wake up I’m excited to what new things I can learn. My goal is to never stop learning and reaching for better.
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Very good I have started my coaching field in my 25 years I have seen a lot of these problems but I won’t manage it properly now only try to fulfilling it these instructions are very useful for young coaches like me
I have coached multiple sports for years. At age 70 I was asked this year to come back and coach tennis by a young coach. I loved every moment of the season. Yes I would do some things differently but basically because I did not do it for the money but for the chance to see improvement it was GREAT. I think if you set up your values to coach by, and live them everyday, Coaching becomes very rewarding!